Boundaries around physical contact in therapy are put in place to create a safe place for clients to work out difficult issues. But many therapists are flexible when it comes to these boundaries, as long as they remain professional and do not cause harm to the client. That flexibility can include hugging.

The term masseuse is a French word that refers to a female who practices massage. (Males in the industry were known as masseurs.) However, due to certain unsavory connotations (as well as the need for more gender neutral terminology), both male and female massage practitioners go by the term “massage therapist”.

What is important to remember is your professional and ethical obligations to the client, including how a power differential might have influenced the interest or start of the personal relationship. It is NEVER a good idea for a health care provider to start dating their client.

What is a Couples Massage? A couples massage is a shared experience designed for two people where each person involved receives a relaxing massage from a therapist. The massages are provided at the same time, in the same private room, but in different massage beds (one per person).